
The PeerRx Blog
Explore below for past buddy check newsletters and other inspiration for checking in with your partner.
Beyond the “Doctor’s Lounge”: Upgrade 2022
“Not valuing time with other physicians or allowing for informal conversations leads to a soulless efficiency and professional isolation.” John Frey, MD (feel free to substitute your own profession or “colleagues” for “physicians”)
Resilience??!! What We Need is More Rē-Zilience!
“What’s your ‘word’? Mine is Zilience!” Me
Finding Joy in Medicine? Start By Celebrating Those Baby Steps!
It takes time and effort to free ourselves of the scarcity story that most of us have learned along the way – the idea that happiness is a competition, and that someone else is grabbing all the joy. — Sharon Salzberg
Can We Start Over? Reconnection Powered by Apology
“Apologizing … means you value your relationship more than your ego.” Mark Matthews, author
Comparative Suffering: Are You a Self-Suffer Stuffer
“Saying someone shouldn’t feel sad because someone else may have it worse is like saying someone can't be happy because someone else may have it better.” Unknown
Give Me a Break! The Practice of Self-Compassion
“If your compassion does not include yourself, it is incomplete.” Jack Kornfield
Going Off-Line: Disconnecting … to Connect ….
“Almost everything will work again if you unplug it for a few minutes … including you.” Anne Lamotte, author
We Could All Use a Good Laugh
“Laughter is the shortest distance between two people.” Victor Borge, entertainer
Let’s “Yz”-up! No One Should Care Alone … Ever
“Why is it important to swim with a buddy?” Our local YMCA swim instructor
It’s Time to Stop Pretending
“Toxic positivity is positivity given in the wrong way, in the wrong dose, at the wrong time.” David Kessler, author of “Finding Meaning: The Sixth Stage of Grief.”
Let’s Be Out to “Get” Each Other …
“You know what everybody needs? … Everybody needs to be understood.” Sherwin Nuland, MD, surgeon, author, bioethicist
Making Room for Recovery
“Energy, Not Time, Is Our Most Precious Resource” ― Jim Loehr, PhD
Let Your “Word” Help Create Your World in 2022
“Words create worlds.” – Attributed to many
Rising Together in 2022
”One of the most effective things you can do to build better habits is to join a culture where your desired behavior is the normal behavior.” James Clear, author, “Atomic Habits”
E-PPE is Flying Off the Shelves! Time to Restock … Again ….
“We are burning through our most irreplaceable health-care resource – us!” Mark Greenawald, MD
It’s Time to “Bump” You Up!
“High fives and fist bumps … have a lot to say about the cooperative workings of a team ….” Kraus, Huang, and Keltner (2010)
Remembering that No Feeling is Final
“Let everything happen to you: beauty and terror. Just keep going. No feeling is final.” Rainer Maria Rilke (from the poem “Go to the Limits of Your Longing”)
The Price of the “Efficiency Trap”
“Not valuing time with other physicians or allowing for informal conversations leads to a soulless efficiency and professional isolation.” John Frey, MD (substitute your own profession if not a physician)
How to Celebrate Thanks-Giving Every Day
“I don’t have to chase extraordinary moments to find happiness – it’s right in front of me if I’m paying attention and practicing gratitude”. Brene Brown