The PeerRx Blog
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You Deserve a Break Today: Practicing Self-Compassion
“If your compassion does not include yourself, it is incomplete.” Jack Kornfield
How Then Shall We Connect?
“Nothing new that is really interesting comes without collaboration.” James D. Watson (discoverer of the double-helix structure of DNA with Francis Crick)
How Will You Spring Forward in the Coming Months?
"Though I do not believe that a plant will spring up where no seed has been, I have great faith in a seed... Convince me that you have a seed there, and I am prepared to expect wonders." — Henry David Thoreau
Masking Optional! Time to Remove Yours?
“Wearing a mask wears you out. Faking it is fatiguing.” – Rick Warren
When is Your Recovery Time?
“We live in a world that celebrates work and activity, ignores renewal and recovery, and fails to recognize that both are necessary for sustained high performance.” Jim Loehr, PhD - The Power of Full Engagement
We All Need a “Soul Friend” Colleague
“Friendship is always an act of recognition …. If you realize how vital to your whole spirit friendship actually is, you will take time for it.” John O’Donohue
How Do We “Gather Together” When We No Longer Do?
“One of the gifts of 'Star Trek' is my professional work colleagues have become my lifelong friends.” George Takei (Hikaru Sulu)
It’s Time to “Yz-up”!
“Why is it important to swim with a buddy?” Our local YMCA swim instructor
How’s the Balance in Your “Emotional Bank Accounts”?
“People don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care.” Attributed to many persons
How to Invest Wisely in 2023
“If you were to make one investment in your well-being … the best one you could make long-term is to take care of your relationships.” Robert Waldinger, MD
When Going “Fast” May Be Exactly What You Need
“What the eyes are for the outer world, fasts are for the inner.” ~ Mahatma Gandhi
Looking for Some Medicine for Your Soul? Try Music!
“Music can heal the wounds which medicine cannot touch.” - Debasish Mridha, MD, Neurologist and Author
It’s Metta (not Meta) Time
“ … upping your love game is anything but boring. It’s countercultural because it cuts against the never-enoughness and always-behindness that society seems to want us to feel.” Dan Harris, Author and Journalist
Let Your “Word” Help Create Your World in 2023
“Words create worlds.” – Attributed to many
We Need to Share Our Stories … With Each Other
“Everybody is a story …. The most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to listen. Just listen.” Rachel Naomi Remem, MD
We are “Grief-Worthy,” So Don’t “Dis” Your Grief, and Theirs
"Grief is not a disorder, a disease or a sign of weakness. It is an emotional, physical and spiritual necessity, the price you pay for love. The only cure for grief is to grieve." Rabbi Earl Grollman, author and an internationally recognized bereavement counselor
When Did You Learn How to Grieve?
“When you compare losses, someone else’s may seem greater or lesser than your own, but all losses are painful.” ― Elisabeth Kübler-Ross, MD, Psychiatrist, author and pioneer in our understanding of dying and grieving
To Grieve is Normal … No One Should Grieve Alone
“Your loss is not a test, a lesson, something to handle, a gift, or a blessing. Loss is simply what happens to you in life. Meaning is what you make happen.” David Kessler
Celebrating Our “Angels” this Thanks-Giving
“Sometimes our light goes out but is blown again into instant flame by an encounter with another human being. Each of us owes the deepest thanks to those who have rekindled this inner light.” Albert Schweitzer, MD, Humanitarian and Nobel Peace Prize Recipient
Using Atomic Power to Break the Spell
“Every action you take is a vote for the person you wish to become.” James Clear, Atomic Habits