The PeerRx Blog
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Do You Speak Appreciationese?
“Each of us wants to know that what we do matters …. and that we matter.” Gary Chapman, PhD and Paul White, PhD, co-authors of the book The 5 Languages of Appreciation in the Workplace
Let’s Be Out to “Get” Each Other
“You know what everybody needs?… Everybody needs to be understood.” Sherwin Nuland, MD, surgeon, author, bioethicist
We Need to Take More Call
“You just call on me …. when you need a hand. We all need somebody to lean on.” Bill Withers, Rock and Roll Hall of Fame inductee, from the song “Lean on Me”
Being Admitted by a Colleague to the “I See You …”
“The ultimate touchstone of friendship … is witness.” David Whyte; poet, author, philosopher
Recognizing Our Need to Belong
"Belonging is being accepted for you. Fitting in is being accepted for being like everyone else." – Anonymous
Practicing the Art of Intentional Living
“Intentional living is the art of making our own choices before others’ choices make us.” Richie Norton, author and podcaster
Back to the Fundamentals: We’re In This Together
“Don’t worry! I got your back.” — Anchoring phrase at the 2024 AAFP Physician Well-being Conference
Time for a “Retirement Party” From Competitive Suffering?
“Saying someone shouldn’t feel sad because someone else may have it worse is like saying someone can't be happy because someone else may have it better.” Unknown
How Certain Are You Doctor?
“Medicine is a science of uncertainty and an art of probability.” Sir William Osler
Helping Each Other Carry the Weight of Our Professional Burdens
“Owning our story and loving ourselves through that process is perhaps the bravest thing we will ever do.” Brené Brown
Saying “No” to Regain your JOMO
“The difference between successful people and really successful people is that really successful people say no to almost everything.” ― Warren Buffet
How Will You Spring Forward in the Coming Months?
"I have great faith in a seed.... Convince me that you have a seed there, and I am prepared to expect wonders." — Henry David Thoreau
Say It Now! Gratitude is for Sharing, Not Saving
“The deepest principle in human nature is the craving to be appreciated.” William James, MD, considered to be the “Father of American Psychology”
The Secret of Living Well? Let’s Wonder Together …
“Perhaps the secret of living well is not having all the answers, but in pursuing unanswerable questions in good company.” Rachel Naomi Remen, MD
Practicing What We Profess: Haven’t Got Time?
“Why is it that giving myself a break feels like such a big deal!?” Me
Our Oath is to First Help, not to “Not Harm”
“Into whatsoever houses I enter, I will enter to help the sick, and I will abstain from all intentional wrong-doing and harm.” Hippocrates
Perhaps It’s Time to Get Angry
“Anybody can become angry - that is easy, but to be angry with the right person, to the right degree, at the right time, for the right purpose, and in the right way - that is not within everybody's power and is not easy.” Aristotle
A Waken: Happy 4th Anniversary PeerRxMed!
“Courage starts with showing up and letting ourselves be seen …. Because true belonging only happens when we present our authentic, imperfect selves to the world.” Brene Brown (The Gifts of Imperfection).
Bouncing Back … and Then Some ….
"In the depth of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer." - Albert Camus, French Novelist and Nobel Prize Winner