
The PeerRx Blog
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How Will You “Fall Forward” in the Coming Months?
"Life starts all over again when it gets crisp in the fall." — F. Scott Fitzgerald
Tolerations: The Silent Energy Drainers in Our Lives
"Do not overlook the little things, for the day you cease to attend to them is the day they start to grow and compound." – John C. Maxwell
No One Should Struggle Alone
“We need to be better at helping each other.” Physician colleague who came within minutes of committing suicide
Sowing Kindness by Showing Kindness
“ … all kindness begins with the sown seed.” Mary Oliver from her poem, “What I Have Learned So Far.”
Elevating Your Kindness Quotient: Take the KQ Challenge
"Kindness is more important than wisdom, and the recognition of this is the beginning of wisdom." — Theodore Isaac Rubin, MD, psychiatrist and author
Leaving Them Better Than You Found Them – Just Be Kind
"Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible". The Dalai Lama
Becoming More Human – Thanks for the Reminder, COVID
“Medical culture is steeped in a tradition of stoicism, where showing vulnerability is often misconstrued as weakness." Danielle Ofri, MD
Using Nested Meditations to Gain New Insights – I’m “All In”
“If we have pen in hand and follow the thread with a playful spirit, new and healing discoveries can emerge as if they were trapped there among the words all along, just waiting for a childlike playfulness to set them free.” Kevin Anderson, PhD, Psychotherapist and Author
Asking Powerful Questions to Build Professional Intimacy
"Intimacy is the willingness to be vulnerable." – Brené Brown
Learning to Love My “Manyme’s”
"I contain multitudes." - Walt Whitman, from the poem “Song of Myself, 51”
Being Positively Deviant (and inviting others along for the ride)
"The reasonable man [sic] adapts himself to the world: the unreasonable one persists in trying to adapt the world to himself. Therefore all progress depends on the unreasonable man." — George Bernard Shaw
Do You Speak Appreciationese?
“Each of us wants to know that what we do matters …. and that we matter.” Gary Chapman, PhD and Paul White, PhD, co-authors of the book The 5 Languages of Appreciation in the Workplace
Let’s Be Out to “Get” Each Other
“You know what everybody needs?… Everybody needs to be understood.” Sherwin Nuland, MD, surgeon, author, bioethicist
We Need to Take More Call
“You just call on me …. when you need a hand. We all need somebody to lean on.” Bill Withers, Rock and Roll Hall of Fame inductee, from the song “Lean on Me”
Being Admitted by a Colleague to the “I See You …”
“The ultimate touchstone of friendship … is witness.” David Whyte; poet, author, philosopher
Recognizing Our Need to Belong
"Belonging is being accepted for you. Fitting in is being accepted for being like everyone else." – Anonymous
Practicing the Art of Intentional Living
“Intentional living is the art of making our own choices before others’ choices make us.” Richie Norton, author and podcaster
Back to the Fundamentals: We’re In This Together
“Don’t worry! I got your back.” — Anchoring phrase at the 2024 AAFP Physician Well-being Conference
Time for a “Retirement Party” From Competitive Suffering?
“Saying someone shouldn’t feel sad because someone else may have it worse is like saying someone can't be happy because someone else may have it better.” Unknown